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    With the rape and crime rates still on the rise in the country, here is something which I’m sure every girl or woman would like to tell each of the Y-chromosome bearing creatures. And no you haven’t heard this before. It was like an unwritten rule. We felt it but we didn’t speak it aloud. And if I don’t speak now, then I think I will be a victim of your chauvinism always in all ways.
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    Yes I am a girl. I have to think a hundred times before I walk out of my house wearing shorts. I see my mother’s worried face every time I go somewhere alone. I am told not to be outside after the sun sets. I get married at an early age. I have to abort my own baby. I tolerate scrutinizing looks all the time. I am asked to dress in an “appropriate” manner so that I don’t get raped. I can’t talk back or raise my voice against mistreatment. You know why? Because I am a girl, a frustrated citizen of a morally dead nation. And because you, males, see me as the weaker sex and because you forget that if I am not your sister, then I am someone else’s.

    -Saanica Wahal

     

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