Everyone has their own problems, struggles, and fights. But still, we compare ourselves with others. We make ourselves sad. Is this because successful people are born smarter? Or is it because they have more money? Maybe they are just lucky? No, the reality is neither of these things, but, they choose a different path to climb the success ladder. The path is being confident. The path is to believe in oneself. The self-confidence ultimately creates opportunities for success. Those people who have self-confidence in their life always appear on top of the world.
Now let’s talk about the people who are confident enough, who are successful in their lives. If you have ever noticed, you might know that these self-confident people are successful in each area of their lives. Have you ever thought ‘why’? That is because self-confident people know the impact of believing in themselves and relying on their own abilities. They talk so confidently that they make you believe that they are correct and make you agree with them. Such people seem to be more aware and educated even though he/she knows a little about the subject. Whereas, a person who is scholarly but lacking confidence might fail in convincing you. So, display your confidence even if you don’t feel like it.
Have the courage to accept yourself as you really are—not as you might be, or as someone else thinks you should be because you are a pretty good person. Don’t be afraid of being judged by others. People will demotivate you but not all people. There will be people who will guide you. So, encircle yourself with positive people and be optimistic. You will start believing in yourself.
You can develop yourself into the person you want to be. You might have heard that – if you can believe it you can achieve it.
By Niha Parmanandani